Planning your dream wedding is an exciting journey, but before you dive into the details, defining your budget is essential. Whether you’re planning a grand destination wedding or an intimate elopement, a well-thought-out budget ensures your vision aligns with reality. Here’s how to structure your wedding budget effectively.
Defining your budget isn’t just about picking a number—it’s about allocating funds wisely. Many couples underestimate costs or forget key vendors.
A structured budget ensures :
✔ No financial stress post-wedding
✔ Every element aligns with your vision
✔ No unexpected compromises
Determine Your Total Budget
Many couples start by picking a random number, but this approach often leads to surprises. Instead, consider:
- Your financial situation: What can you comfortably afford?
- Contributions from family: Are parents or relatives offering financial support? If you are not sure, consider 0 participation to not have bad surprises.
- Priorities: What elements matter most to you? (e.g., venue, entertainment, guest experience)
Once you have a rough number, break it down into categories to get a realistic view of costs.
The Biggest Expenses: Guest Count & Venue
Your guest count and venue choice will significantly impact your budget. A lavish ballroom wedding for 150 guests costs vastly more than an intimate vineyard gathering for 40. Consider:
- Venue rental fees: Do you need accommodation? Will guests pay for their rooms or participate? Breakfast? Is there a pool? Are we close to the beach? Etc. Around Bordeaux, we would easily consider a minimum of 8k€ and up to 15k€ for a venue with accommodation.
- Catering costs: you can consider between 90 to 120€ per guest.
- Accommodation: If it’s a destination wedding, will you cover guests’ lodging?
Pro tip: If you’re dreaming of a stunning venue but need to cut costs, consider a weekday wedding or off-peak season.
Entertainment: Band vs. DJ ?
Music sets the mood, but costs vary significantly:
- Live Band: Creates an unforgettable experience but costs 2-3 times more than a DJ.
- DJ: A more budget-friendly yet stylish option for a high-energy party. We can probably have a saxophonist coming along to give some more party vibe!
Pro tip: If you want live music without breaking the bank, opt for a smaller jazz trio during cocktails and a DJ for the reception.
Additional Events: Welcome Dinners & Brunches
Multi-day celebrations are becoming increasingly popular, especially for destination weddings.
- A welcome dinner helps guests bond before the big day.
- A post-wedding brunch is a thoughtful way to say thank you.
If you’re planning extra events, factor in catering, venue rental, and décor costs.
Décor & Floral Design: The Wow Factor
Florals and décor create the ambiance but can be a significant expense. Consider:
- Bespoke floral installations: Floral arches, hanging arrangements, and floral aisles, dinner tables, and any small details can cost up to 3000€.
- Table décor & rentals: Fine china, designer tableware, and elegant linens elevate the experience. But it is an extra cost too. Most caterers for example would have classic dishware to offer.
Pro tip: Work with your florist on seasonal blooms to achieve a lush look while keeping costs in check.
Guest Experience: Bar, Favors & Extras
Luxury weddings focus on guest experience. Some elements to budget for:
- Open bar vs. cash bar: cash bar are very rare in France.
- Wedding favors: We can count between 20 to 50€ per guests, depends on the favor.
- Transportation: If your venue is remote, consider hiring guest shuttles.
Let’s Bring Your Dream Wedding to Life
As a Destination wedding planner, I specialize in creating unforgettable experiences while ensuring financial clarity from day one. Whether you’re envisioning a romantic chateau wedding in France or an elegant celebration by the sea, I’ll help you craft a bespoke budget that reflects your priorities. During our first meeting, we would draft together estimates to give you an idea of where we are going together! A guideline!
📩 If you’re ready to start planning your destination wedding or french Elopment, I’d love to help you make it an unforgettable experience. Contact me today, and let’s create souvenirs that will last a lifetime.
